You knew it was coming...DADT

Disappointed...that's the way I feel, especially after reading one of my best friend's blogs who has a completely opposite viewpoint than myself. Yes, Don't Ask Don't Tell was overturned today after Obama signed it into law. Congratulations Obama on passing several legislative bills recently...I will give you credit on that. BUT, what you will also get credit on is literally ruining our nation. Just because you pass legislation does not mean that it is good legislation. I don't apologize for saying it...you are ruining our country in more ways than one and you will be held accountable for that.
Before I ramble on, here is what I don't get. There was the biggest landslide politically that this nation has ever seen (Nov 2). America spoke that the track we WERE on was not what was wanted...so why on God's green Earth has this lame duck session of Congress rammed through legislation that is unpopular? (Obviously because they could...and they know none of this garbage would go through come January when other people take over)

First, the military has NEVER recognized homosexuality...Don't Ask Don't Tell was put into place 17 years ago and just said not to speak of it. For as long as the US has had a military, homosexuality has not been recognized...there is a reason for that.
Second, our US military leaders spoke out against this...but as our government tends to do, they DO NOT listen to others. The military is a family, is a team...as one who played college basketball and played with a homosexual...there is friction there. We didn't want to undress around this person, we didn't want to shower around this person, this person was outspoken sexually in some regards and hit on some of our teammates. It's uncomfortable...not because I'm a homophobe, but because it is unnatural.
*Before I go further...yes I have people pretty close to me that live this lifestyle...I don't treat them differently, I just don't approve of their attraction to the same sex.
Third, our military is there to protect our country...it isn't there for a social experiment when we are in the middle of a war.
Fourth, for us Christians out there...the government is making it harder for us to raise our kids based on Biblical values. Think through this with me...this repeal is a step toward making homosexuality "normal"...that is their goal and agenda. The push for gay marriage is still on the agenda, and this is one step too many in that direction.
Fifth, this will seem extreme...but so did homosexuality years ago. So what our government says is that this behavior is okay. So when the person whose behavior is to express love toward animals (beastiality) comes along wanting recognition, what will be next? Marriage between man and animals...sounds crazy, but that's a sexual perversion too. We may not be able to help who we are attracted to, but we can help our behavior.
Sixth, this sin of homosexuality can be beat...I know someone who lived that lifestyle and turned from it. He is a huge encouragement to me because it gives me hope. I heard on the radio this week-a woman called in who lived this lifestyle for 30 years...still had guilt, went to church leaders for help (unfortunately some of those leaders were not based on the Bible), so she turned to the Bible herself because she knew God's word was unchanging. She was transformed by God's word and His power.

Here's the deal...homosexuality will NEVER be recognized and accepted by God. Yes, He still loves the sinner, but he hates sin. My heart truly breaks for those in this lifestyle...I can't imagine what they go through. But I do know this, God is more powerful than the Devil's foothold on behavior...this may a battle lost to us Christians whose viewpoint and foundation are based on the Bible...but the greatest news ever, we know who WINS overall...the Bible is clear on that too!

Intrusion

Intrusion...that is what our government does, often subtly. I was talking with a lady today on the topic of government, shared this next story with her...and she had not heard or seen anything about it on tv. Go figure! It is amazing what you don't see on tv news these days. So, I thought I would share a little story from Oklahoma!

A few days ago the Federal Reserve went to visit a bank in Oklahoma...Payne County Bank to be exact. Instead of going there and checking "bank" stuff...the Feds started harassing the bank over its Christian symbolism. There were Thomas Kinkade paintings on the walls, Bible verses displayed, Christmas buttons worn by employees...these things were the focus of the Federal Reserve. The Feds demanded all of these items removed, or ELSE...or ELSE they would call the Justice Department and seek legal action. Is that not crazy? Do we not live America anymore. Since when did it become a crime to be a Christian? What is it about Christianity that threatens our government?
One more detail of importance...this bank is private. The employees own the bank...so imagine the government coming into your personal business and telling you what you can and cannot do.

The good news...the Feds backed down after word got out about this crap. Thank goodness word got out...but it is battles like this that we Americans, we Christian Americans are going to have to fight. Unfortunately, our government is siding with things that are anti-Biblical. We are continuing to slide into immorality...yes this trend has been going on for years, not just with this current administration. The difference, this administration is condoning immorality...things that have been considered socially and morally wrong. I just wanted to make you aware!

presents...unwrapped

We humans are kind of like presents...let's think actual presents for a minute since Christmas is less than a week away. I love wrapping presents. Let's face it, presents come in all forms and fashions. The outward appearance, or presentation, can set the tone for the gift. Have you ever been to a group gift exchange, or white elephant party? At the ones we have been a part of in the past, you had to be careful of the really pretty, well wrapped gifts. Usually they had the bad gifts on the inside.
My point, we are like presents. We can be all glammed up on the outside, but have junk on the inside. Heck, we could literally be empty on the inside...which would equate to an empty box with a pretty wrapping. Then there's the gift that looks terrible to the eye (think brown paper bag or big brown box), but it's the best present ever!
People are the same way...I know it's cliche, but it truly is what's on the inside that counts. We tear all of the wrapping paper off to get to the inside...At the end of the day, it doesn't matter what our appearance is. We could be a 10, or we could be a -5 on someone's scale of beauty...thank goodness our Lord in heaven looks past our outer wrapping and goes straight to the gift inside. That being said, self-reflect what your inside is like...hopefully your foundation and significance lies with our Savior, Jesus...that's the best gift a person can have! Did I mention that the eternal gift of Jesus is FREE!

50/50..not 100%

What a "lame duck" session of Congress...nothing like having liberals who are on their way out of Washington (remember they got voted out in November, but that doesn't take effect until Jan) vote for crazy legislation.
Let's start with the good news...the DREAM ACT did NOT pass. This would have granted amnesty to a large portion of illegal immigrants. I do understand that many illegals were brought here against their will...but there is still a legal process to go through. Become a legal US citizen...don't just wait for the government to bail you out once again. Anyway, this was the legislation with the proper outcome...thank goodness it did not pass. We have to keep fighting because illegal immigrants are going to continue pushing...nonetheless, this was a battle won.

For the bad news...Don't Ask Don't Tell got overturned. There are so many different aspects regarding this issue. First things first, this moral issue is black and white in the Bible...it is wrong. That's the first and main reason it shouldn't have been overturned. Not only that, but it will cause issues among comrades...here are possibilities (and at some point these things will happen): you will have a homosexual that doesn't get promoted and will blame it on his open homosexuality, you will have a homosexual that gets promoted simply out of fear of not promoting a homosexual, you will have uneasiness in barracks due to the outspoken homosexuals, you will have distractions by our troops when their focus should be on the war and task at hand. Here's the deal...the military is a job. There shouldn't be any room for sexual promiscuity and sexual flamboyance of any kind, whether heterosexual or homosexual. Homosexuals were allowed to serve before this was overturned...this was not about a job, or about our national security...this was about a minority group of individuals who will use this as a stepping stone.

Go back to the previous blogs...we are in a moral, culture, spiritual battle...we have to have a foundation for our beliefs; we can't just change with the wind. That's why my beliefs follow that of the Bible...the Bible is unchanging, it never has it never will. Once again, this is why electing officials with Biblical principles is needed...if not, you never know what will happen! Prime example happened today...

Culture WAR

http://technolog.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2010/12/16/5659718-steve-jobs-targeted-in-anti-gay-iphone-app-war

Click on the above link...this is why Christians with traditional values have to be active. We, Americans, are in a huge cultural war. Unfortunately that mean, that Christianity and its values are being attacked left and right. The above website is a story I heard about last week, and this article was posted on my home internet page today. In summary, there was an I-phone app that thousands of Christians had because it was in favor of traditional (male-female) marriage. However, many raised concern and apple took it away although they had already approved it. Basically, it is okay to have apps for gay marriage, for homosexuals...but it isn't okay to have one for traditional marriage. That's bull! Why is traditional marriage offensive these days? When did the Bible and its morals become the wrong?

The Manhattan Declaration...click HERE
A CALL OF CHRISTIAN CONSCIENCE
Christians, when they have lived up to the highest ideals of their faith, have defended the weak and vulnerable and worked tirelessly to protect and strengthen vital institutions of civil society, beginning with the family. It was in this tradition that a group of prominent Christian clergy, ministry leaders, and scholars released the Manhattan Declaration on November 20, 2009 at a press conference in Washington, DC. The 4,700-word declaration speaks in defense of the sanctity of life, traditional marriage, and religious liberty. It issues a clarion call to Christians to adhere firmly to their convictions in these three areas.

I copied the above from the home page of the Manhattan Declaration...I encourage you to sign it. Here's the bottom line...we as Christians, have to be willing to stand up to this culture battle. It is just that...a battle. Non-believers of biblical values are fighting like crazy to take our Christian voices away, under the battle of it being offensive. Here's another example of a group willing to stand up and fight for their beliefs, and who are not willing to back down. You can go sign this declaration too!

Spreading Christmas Cheer

I think this is the coolest thing, or maybe the most encouraging thing to me personally. The radio station ministry I listen too ALL of the time...American Family Radio...has a big button campaign this time of year. They, along with the Family Research Council, are two of the biggest activist/advocates on behalf of traditional biblical values that I am aware of. I have learned sooo much from them in so many different aspects: scripture, Christianity vs other religions, definitely politics and economics, and how all of these things relate to our Christian worldview. All of that being said, let's go back to the button campaign. The buttons say "Merry Christmas, God with us. " The goal is for believers to wear them, and share them. So, if someone says, "Hey I like your button, " then you give it to them knowing you have more where that came from.

My encouragement...all 4 days this week I have seen someone wearing these buttons. On Monday I was excited: (Jonesboro, AR) a lady in a surgery center I went in for work had one on.
Tuesday: (Olive Branch, MS) it wasn't a button, but the same image on a sticker which was on the back windshield of a car.
Wednesday: (Oxford, MS) a nurse practitioner was wearing one
Thursday: (Hernando, MS) this one rocked my socks off because I couldn't believe it had happened 4 days now...by a Walgreens employee had one on.

I LOVE INTENTIONAL PEOPLE...We have to be intentional about our beliefs!

In an email...

*I received the following in an email today...thought the message was good and wanted to pass it along. After all, we all have things thrown in our direction...but it is up to us how we respond during those times. *

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying A word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.

Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what you see." "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.

Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled, as she tasted its rich aroma the daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother?"

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its insides became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.

Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

COMPROMISE

I'm irked (however you spell that word) to say the least....what is becoming more and more obvious is that the "left" wants tolerance and compromise, but yet they aren't willing to do it them-self. The rhetoric is everywhere these days...Republicans are only for the wealthy, Republicans were called the party of "NO" for a while, Christians aren't tolerant and are offensive...yet time and time again what is so obvious is that the "other" side isn't willing to compromise or be tolerant.
Case in point...the stupid negotiations made by both Democrats and Republicans over the tax rate and unemployment. Let's face it, neither side got what they truly want...but there was a compromise between Obama and Republicans. To some extent, I give both sides credit (unfortunately the credit stops there). THEN, the Democrats come out with a bang...they didn't want to compromise tax increases for the "wealthy". They think the wealthy should still give more of their hard earned money to Uncle Sam so our government can get their overspending paws on it. Can you tell I'm frustrated...who's the party of NO now? I truly don't get it...these bozo's want to take money that isn't theirs in the first place from people who earned it, just so they can spread the wealth around. It isn't like Republicans wanted to extend unemployment for ANOTHER YEAR, but they were willing to! That's really going to motivate people to get out and look for a job...no, let's just enable a majority of these people to mooch off of taxpayer money for even longer! (To those who are legit on unemployment, this doesn't apply to you) At the end of the day, it was initially compromise. Not saying it was my ideal situation, but it was both parties coming together to find compromise...congratulations Democrats for being HYPOCRITES!
The next compromise, which isn't a good one...deals with Belmont University. I just heard this for the first time today...but Belmont has compromised on an issue that is crystal clear in the Bible. (Belmont has been considered a Christian college in the past). A lesbian soccer coach got fired there (no one knows the real reason, but assumptions are being made because of her sexuality and her partner getting pregnant). So, everyone is up in arms about the homosexual discrimination garbage again...unfortunately, even some Christians are willing to compromise God's holy word on this issue. This isn't good. God's word is UNCHANGING...His word DOESN'T change with the times. So, at the end of the day...it kind of goes back to the above paragraph. Christians are considered bigots, idiots, intolerant...but that is exactly what the other side of this debate is doing. They believe THEIR opinions are right and are intolerable to us Christians who actually have a foundation for our beliefs that have been set in stone since man-kind was created. Like it or not, our God is predictable...He doesn't compromise and as followers of His, we shouldn't either.

FREEDOM: why other countries hate the US & Christianity

This is definitely not going to be new to some of you, but this thought kind of hit me today...The United States and Christianity go hand in hand. Both are based around freedom in a lot of ways. This is why the US has always been referred to as a Christian nation. The US gives citizens the opportunity to live with freedom of life, unless a crime is committed and their rights are taken away. Christianity is similar...we are able to live with free choice in our lives within God's established guidelines, just like we are able to do as US citizens.
What I've realized...that's what other nations hate us for. Think about it...with freedom comes great responsibility, but the reward is amazing. Other countries do not have this, as a country or religion. In some Asian countries like China and North Korea, communism prevails. The government controls pretty much everything: what is available on tv, what the government agenda is on tv, how many children you can have, etc. Catch my drift here...they control almost everything, and try to "brainwash" their citizens into thinking one way...like the government wants them to. Next up, Islamic countries like Saudi Arabia and Iran...their Muslim religion and sharia law have strict, strict control. In these countries, you are either Muslim...or you are not welcome. Did you know that no Jew or Christian can enter in Saudi Arabia? or isn't supposed to. People here have NO choice...One last point about all of the countries mentioned thus far...Bibles are forbidden there. Yes, there are underground churches in these nations (which we should be praying for by the way)...these people risk everything just to get their hands on a Bible.

With the above being said, isn't it crazy how people criticize the US? Like the Bible, the US has laws which are guidelines...things operate better when we live within the rules. (if we didn't have rules we would have chaos, which isn't good) We have amazing freedom here in the US...we can watch too much of nothing on tv, we have alternative media to find out the other side of the story compared to what's presented on basic tv, we can choose to be Christian, Jew, Muslim, atheist, etc...we aren't forced into anything. That's why the US is such a threat...we are free to worship the ONE, TRUE GOD of our universe...we aren't forced into it, it is our choice (and one I hope and pray you will make if you haven't already). The ironic thing...
Christianity is taking heat here too, especially in Christmas season. The battle for even using the term Christmas is everywhere. Not only is Christianity taking heat, but so are a majority of our freedoms...you have politicians wanting to regulate our airwaves and tv more than they already are (by this I mean forcing conservative media out), you have a government that has taken on the responsibility of our healthcare industry to such a degree that people are forced into depending on it, they are trying to regulate our energy sources by feeding us the global warming crap that hasn't been proven, you currently have an administration that has pushed class warfare (which is obvious they would prefer a classless society where everyone is given the same, it wouldn't be based on hard work and what is earned)...the list could go on. Here's the bottom line to this very long blog...
CHRISTIANITY AND THE UNITED STATES ARE THE 2 GREATEST THINGS IN THE WORLD. BOTTOM LINE...FREEDOM IS THE COMMON DENOMINATOR TO BOTH OUR COUNTRY AND THE CHRISTIAN LIFESTYLE/RELIGION. The more freedom that is taken away, the more we become like the nations that tell their citizens what to do, how to behave, and what to believe. Christianity is totally different and so is the US...let's keep it that way!

tax cuts or increases?

Seriously...I am frustrated and bothered that this "Bush tax cut" thing is even an issue. These "tax cuts", which have been the going rate for 10 years...10 years, let me repeat that...is what we are used to. Increasing taxes on anyone right now in this economy is a bad idea. Just because you make a lot of money and are able to pay six figures in taxes, doesn't mean you should be punished by not having your taxes kept at the same rate. Not only that, who is capable of creating jobs right now? Not those struggling just to make ends meet, not those who are cutting back in order to make it, not those who are having to dip into their savings, not those losing their homes, etc...catch my drift?
Here's the difference between Democrats and Republicans...you make up your mind which ideology you fall behind? There are 2 OPPOSITE schools of thought:

The Democrats want to increase taxes (by letting the tax cuts expire it will raise taxes), which will generate more federal dollars. By letting the tax rate increase, it has a negative impact on business owners expanding their business...which means they will lose incentive to actually take a risk on hiring new employees. Not only that, with the uneasiness of Obamacare...business owners are afraid and not willing to take the risk because they don't know how much they are going to pay for healthcare. Thus, the unemployment rate borders at just below 10%...and we Americans have to continue paying unemployment because no one is creating jobs...for the above reasons. You see how this is all connected? At the end of the day...if you are okay with the federal government making more decisions for you, if you want everything "handed" to you, then this philosophy is right for you.

The Conservative Republicans (and I clarified conservative...not all of them are) want to leave the tax rate as it's been for the last 10 years. Why might you ask...because jobs need to be created. Business owners, including wealthy Americans, need to keep their own money...in hopes of investing it to create more jobs. Let' just be honest...poor people aren't likely to hire people and start jobs. Not only that, but the answer to unemployment...CREATE JOBS. Bush got criticized for an unemployment rate of 5.4...in case you've already forgot...Obama's unemployment rate is nearly double that. So, here's the fundamental difference...Republicans aren't for the wealthy like so many Democrats think. Republicans are for allowing people to keep the money that they, or their family members, have earned...if that means you are wealthy, then so be it.

At the end of the day...our economic situation is about SPENDING. We have to get that under control...while letting Americans keep the money they work so hard for! Don't let the media persuade you into falling for the crap being said out there...increasing taxes on anyone in a deep recession is not good for anyone.

class warfare...

This concept of class warfare doesn't make sense to me...why do people "hate" the wealthy and want them to be punished (when it comes to taxes)? My mind goes back to LUKE 12:48, "...From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked."

Plain and simple, we are all given plenty...and God expects much of us and expects much of our response to what He gives us. The more we are given, the more he expects.
So what if people have/and make more money than I do. For the income my family brings in, we adjust our living to that income. For people/families that make less, then they do the same thing. No doubt in my mind...not everyone is going to live in a house. My father lived in a mobile home, I lived in a basement apartment until my senior year of highschool...while at the same time some of my closest friends lived in some super nice homes/their families were super educated and made good money because of their talents. Who cares? Good for them.

I'm sick and tired of our politicians enhancing class envy...if you are envious of those "wealthier" than you, then do something about it. Actually work, work harder, work smarter...we all have to work to make money. Here's the deal, regardless of how much money you make...you still have to be smart with that money. Just because someone makes a lot, doesn't necessarily mean they have a lot. A lot here in Memphis, isn't a lot in New York or LA...but, the taxing of our wealthy will be a burden regardless of where you live and especially if you live in one of these high dollar areas. It isn't right for people who have earned their money and happen to be in the upper class, to get taxed more just because they make more. They work for that money...to get taxed more would be a dis-incentive and actually be punishment. Does that make sense? We punish positive behavior?

The fact is, these wealthy people create jobs for the rest of us. We want them to have their hard earned money so they can create more jobs and hire more people. However, our government is actually hurting our economy by wanting to tax the rich. By taxing the richest, they are taking money away that could be used to create more jobs...more jobs means more money going out for the business owner. It cost money to hire and pay someone...if our government does not extend our current tax structure, I predict our unemployment rate will go above 10%. As of this month, we are at 9.8%. (FYI, when Obama took office unemployment was at 7.6%)

This should also negate the "Republicans are for the wealthy, while Democrats are for the poor." Most of Republicans are wanting to extend the tax cuts, so that the wealthy can create more jobs, which will help the middle class and poor get jobs, which in turn will make them more money too. It seems like that is actually helping and supporting the lower and middle class too, not harming them. If we truly want to help the people hurting (which a lot of those people are unemployed) then I understand why certain government officials want to end unemployment checks. No doubt this will hurt a lot of people up front because they have become dependent on these government handouts...BUT, what it will also do is not spend that money, put that same money back into the economy if used properly, stimulate the economy and allow that money to create jobs. So, by ending unemployment...it may actually encourage job creation. After all, those drawing unemployment are supposed to be looking for jobs right?

These are just things to think about...we are to be content with the talents and results of those talents. God created us equal, but he gave us different abilities and talents...it takes all of us to make this world work and function, regardless of lower, middle, and upper class.

Government playing God...school lunches

Our government (both D's and R's of the past/and some present)...love to make the American people dependent on government plans. So, why not start this early in a person's life...like school age children. That's the deal with FREE school lunches...okay, it's not the only deal regarding this issue. Congratulations Obama and the current (but soon to be old Congress)...instead of cutting cost like we are supposed to be doing, our administration has put a $4.5 BILLION dollar child nutrition bill in the works. Now yes, on paper this sounds great...let's feed hungry kids. BUT...that's bull when you actually think through this thing.

1. Where's the money going to come from when our country is in debt? There is NO $ to cover this.
2. This new initiative requires the new food to be FDA approved...which means the cost of all of this food will go up and now the government will determine what kids eat. Yeah, more government control.
3. SNAP...the food stamps program. I heard this today (sad to say had never thought about it myself) most of these households with children on the free lunch program already receive food stamps. Technically, are they not double-dipping? We are already giving them food that they are to use to feed their family, including children.
4. PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY...If you are willing to have sex, then you are willing to have children. If you are willing to have children, then you have to be responsible for them...which means food, shelter, clothing. Need I say more...part of being a parent is providing for your child, even if that means sacrificing yourself. It IS NOT the responsibility of the government to feed our kids...
5. My spouse teaches in an inner city school system...about 95% of the school is on the free lunch program. (This includes illegal immigrants who take advantage of this too)...BUT YET, these kids have cell phones, all types of games/gaming devices...etc. That's what's wrong with this whole issue...people will pay for what they want to pay for...if a parent will spend money on cell phones, cell phone bills, all types of video games...then I'm pretty sure they can afford school lunch.
6. It starts dependence on the government at an early age...this issue does one thing for sure, it gets these young children in the mindset that the government will take care of them. And think about this...the government (which uses our taxes that we are required to pay) provides subsidized housing, healthcare, prescription benefits, food stamps, free lunches, cell phones in some cases, and much more. Why would someone work when all of this is given to them?

I rest my case...the government knows exactly what it is doing. Both parties have been guilty of this dependence on government. It's just funny that they don't seem to get it.

No money in heaven...

Kind of ironic writing about money in a tough economy...trust me, I work straight commission in sales and am feeling it right now too. BUT, money really isn't the answer. I was reminded of this again tonight, when I received a phone call about someone from my hometown dying. This man was a self-made millionaire, along with his brothers. He was a good friend to my father over the years...and in fact, the first airplane I ever flew on as a child was this man's private plane.
My point...it doesn't matter how much or little money we have in the bank...we are going to die sometime. This isn't meant to be depressing or to sound morbid...my point...this life is short. Our life here on Earth is temporary.
Therefore, our MAIN objective here on Earth is to glorify God. God knew this (obviously) when he wrote the Bible...he constantly talked of money and warned for us humans not to store up riches on Earth where they can and will decay, but to store up our treasures in heaven. So, regardless of your financial situation...I ask you to self reflect. Realize that ALL of the money you have or are worth, is God's money. He gave each of us the ability to make money...and I truly feel that it belongs to him. After all, we won't be able to take it with us. So, yes we are okay enjoying the money that we earn...but let's also be smart with it. Don't squander it away...and I challenge you...find a way to glorify God with it!

the voice of a few...

When you think about it...if you want something done, then you have to be willing to speak up. Before I go into any details, I will go ahead and make my plea. WE CHRISTIANS NEED TO RAISE OUR VOICES...WE NEED TO BE THE ONES SPEAKING UP AND DEFENDING OUR BIBLICAL VALUES! Okay, now that is said...here's my point, it only takes a few to take a stand and make a difference. This applies to any situation really...

Example, this week the FDA (Food & Drug Administration) removed a common, mild to moderate, pain medicine from the market. From some of the stats I've seen, Propoxyphene was the 38th-most-prescribed generic drug in 2009, with 17.5 million prescriptions nationwide. Not only that, but it has been on the market since the 1950's. My point: you have a medicine that has been used by millions for various reasons, has been prescribed by doctors for decades...and because some advocacy groups spoke out on this product...the ultimate result is that it got pulled from the market. (yes, after studies were done and certain results were found) Never-mind the patients that faithfully found relief from it, the doctors who saw it as an alternative to hydrocodone, the pharmacies who have dispensed it for decades, and many others. Back to my point, the minority spoke up...and action occured.

(And I truly hate to "pick on" the gay community) but this is another good example of a group making the most noise. When looking at various sources, it is believed that only 3-5% of the population in America is homosexual. However, we have a culture (both government and media) that cater to this lifestyle. Not that these people as individuals are not important, but you have all of this debate for 3-5% of the population. Our nation is willing to re-write its laws for 3-5% of the population.

From various sources, I've seen the statistic that 75% of Americans identify as Christian. So why are Christians blasted for speaking up? If Christians don't get involved in culture and politics, then who is left to make the decisions...atheists, Muslims, etc? If we want change, and are called to be the "light" in a dark world, then why would we sit back and be silenced. And let me clarify, I'm not saying be disrespectful or "judging"...but the truth is, as Christians...we have the Word of God in our corner. We aren't the ones "judging"...God is. His word is bold, clear, true, and never changing. It hasn't changed since it was written. Let that be encouragement to you...take God's word and apply it...Christianity is a lifestyle, not simply a belief in Jesus. It's time for us to take a stand and get involved. Don't be afraid as long as Christ is in your corner.

Why it is "un-natural"...FACTS

Due to a conversation today about San Francisco & because of a story I heard about a teacher kicking a student out of the classroom, because they stated they didn't agree with homosexuality...I decided to look up FACTS about homosexuality. The main reason I wanted to share this, is because the media and our government has been doing its best to make us believe both heterosexuality and homosexuality are the same. The FACTS say something different. Yes, any promiscuity can be dangerous...but, the homosexual lifestyle and behavior have increased risks that aren't being shared. Another reason this is important, there are organizations like GLSEN who are "indoctrinating" American students into believing this behavior is natural. This organizations advocates teachers to share this lifestyle/behavior message...and on this point, teachers and schools should remain neutral on this issue. Students should not be influenced or brainwashed into thinking that sex of any sort is okay. Yes, I realize the a lot of students will partake in this behavior anyway...but it shouldn't be encouraged. And to think...that's how your tax payer dollars are being used. So to the core of this message:

-->check out the CDC (center for disease control) facts on homosexuality HERE
summary: Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men (MSM)¹ represent approximately 2% of the US population, yet are the population most severely affected by HIV and are the only risk group in which new HIV infections have been increasing steadily since the early 1990s. In 2006, MSM accounted for more than half (53%) of all new HIV infections in the United States, and MSM with a history of injection drug use (MSM-IDU) accounted for an additional 4% of new infections. At the end of 2006, more than half (53%) of all people living with HIV in the United States were MSM or MSM-IDU. Since the beginning of the US epidemic, MSM have consistently represented the largest percentage of persons diagnosed with AIDS and persons with an AIDS diagnosis who have died. There are also other facts and statistics on this page linked above.

-->I also found this paper written by a doctor for the Corporate Research...click HERE
Council...media/government doesn't share how our bodies were/are made for sex & why it isn't made for homosexual sex. Yes it can be detailed, but this tells how God intended sex between man and woman.

I think that these two links above are proof by facts alone...not to mention what the Bible says about this behavior. This post isn't to bash the homosexual lifestyle, but to merely educate. It IS NOT right to mislead our youth in schools and okay a lifestyle that has so many consequences to it. It isn't above "love" like our government/media wants us to believe...they are more facts about this behavior than meets the eye.

California in the news...

Oh Cali...every time I hear some crazy story in the political/culture world, it seems to come out of California. Sad to say, but nothing really surprises me anymore...if it's going to happen, it seems to take place there. So let's get to it:

1. The Denair Middle School situation...13 year old, Cody Alicea, is told he can not have the American flag on his bike when on school property (it may cause racial tension...hello, we live in America. Last I checked America represents people from all over the world, but as you can imagine this was an issue with the Mexico situation). Good news here, those in authority overturned their decision and allowed this young boy to continue riding with the flag on his bike. Thank goodness the media made a big deal out of this...let the flag fly!

2.In-state tuition ALLOWED for illegal immigrants...what do you say to this ruling? Hmmm, in order to receive in state tuition, it seems as if you would have to be a citizen of the state wouldn't it? Not in California...when it ruled that illegal immigrants are entitled to the same tuition breaks offered to in-state high school students to attend public colleges and universities. So what you're telling me is...you won't receive these tax breaks if you are a US citizen who lives in neighboring Oregon, BUT if you aren't a citizen of the US & aren't a citizen of California...then you can get these breaks. Does that make sense?

3.Next up...the ban on Happy Meals (in San Francisco). Sorry kids, no toys allowed because it tempts you to want happy meals. So what about it being UP TO THE PARENTS to provide and choose what your kids have. I'm all for healthier choices...but that's my choice for my children, not the government. Keep in mind, San Francisco is a sanctuary city who breaks the law by enabling illegal immigrants to hide out there...is one of the MOST LIBERAL cities in the country...and yet puts its foot down on Happy Meals. Interesting!

These are literally just the more recent news stories...gotta love Cali!

Planting seeds...

One of the hardest things for me is realizing that I'm not God...I know that is obvious, but why do I want/wish to control outcomes? It is hard for me, and I assume us, to sit back and have to actually rely on God to deliver. It shouldn't be right...after all, His ways ARE perfect. Nevertheless, it is a hard pill to swallow at times.
However, days like today are encouraging. I received a phone call from someone who told me they went to church today! This someone is a person that I have been praying, and praying, and praying for...so I was somewhat surprised, yet pumped that this person made an attempt to go to church.
That being said, sometimes we are just meant to plant the seeds...we may never see the outcomes, the rewards, the decisions, etc. but we are still called to plant seeds. It is up to God to nurture and grow what was planted...

Kids these days...

I can't help but wonder what kids will be like when my 2 children get to be older. It is crazy to see and hear about kids these days. Today while working, I found out about a 14 year old pregnant girl that was nearby. Seriously....14. How is this girl supposed to provide for a child, teach a child responsibility, get an education, and so on? A nurse in this same office was talking about a situation and her daughter's school...5 girls made a pack to all have sex with and get pregnant by the same boy...and according to this lady, all 5 girls succeeded in getting pregnant. Congratulations son, you now have 5 children on the way by 5 different girls...can't wait to hear how that one is explained when they get older. Then yesterday while driving up the interstate outside Memphis, I spotted 3 teenage boys DANCING in one of the interstate lanes...I honked my horn as a warning, but seriously what are they thinking?

So, what are parents to do? Well, be parents...sounds simple, but somewhere our society is failing our children. Yes, kids do things their parents don't approve of...we can't be everywhere at every time. What we can do is set examples for our kids, correct our kids when needed, guide our kids into becoming responsible humans. Yes, it is definitely easier said than done...but the hard work will pay off. Kids need structure and discipline...that's what keeps our society from becoming utter chaos.

I will say this to all parents out there...God is the ultimate example of parenting. Think about it, God is a God of love AND justice. While He loves us, he still has to correct us and straighten us up. We may not like it and there may be consequences involved, but it is for our own good.

"You can't handle the truth!"

"YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!" stated by Jack Nicholson
Remember that classic line in the movie "A Few Good Men"?

Through a variety of different events today, this is what the take away is...
Do we really want to know the truth? It's kind of like the old scenario where the woman asks, "Do these jeans make my butt look big?" Do we want the truth?

I will say this...my job is sales. Therefore, in order for me to do my job effectively, I need the truth. I don't want doctors to tell me what they think I want to hear, I want the truth...regardless if it is what I want to hear or not. Think about it, how do we move forward if we don't have perspective on things?

This applies not only in my job, but in life too. Let's face it, no one wants to be told of faults or places that need improvement. Our natural instincts put us in defense mode...we all get that way. But, maybe it's good to do a self-check when these instances arise. In a lot of instances, there isn't a clear cut right and wrong...but a difference of opinion. So for example, if you ask someone if the jeans make your butt look big...realize who is giving you their opinion. You never know, maybe they like big butts and that isn't a bad thing :) At the end of the day, maybe we as humans really can't handle the truth. Sometimes the truth isn't that pleasant, but we have to put things in perspective in order to know what to do next, or what adjustments need to be made.

Born Again? How do we know?

For those of us born again...we have an inheritance awaiting us. That's so encouraging and freeing to know! At church this past Sunday, our teaching pastor gave us 4 "signs" of being born again (I believe these originated with Jonathan Edwards):

1. We have a LOVE for Jesus-->others may respect & admire Him and know about Him, but they don't worship Him and actually know Him. The Bible states that even the demons know there is a God...it isn't just knowing God exist, but actually worshiping and loving the one who sacrificed everything and gave us the ultimate gift...salvation and freedom from sin!

2. We have a hatred for sin-->we know longer make excuses or justify sin...but we do acknowledge sin and try to get rid of the sin. To be honest, I HATE sin...I hate what it does to individuals, to families, to society, and how it literally hurts God.

3. LOVE of the word-->we go to it for truth and clarity

4. LOVE for others-->this love goes beyond differences in income, appearance, race, politics, borders, and every other thing you can think of. We are called to love everyone...that doesn't mean excuse wrong though.

I pass this information along as a self check...it should be a joy to obey God! This doesn't guarantee a life free of heart ache, hardship, and difficulty. With God all things are possible...if He is for us then truly, who can be against us. I invite you to get to know the ONLY Lord and Savior Jesus! This isn't simply believing He exist, but being a Christian is a lifestyle.

5 Election Night Keys...

Here is my summary from tonight so far (it isn't over yet) & you probably won't here things put this way on your news tomorrow:

1. IT'S NOT ABOUT RACISM BUT IDEOLOGY...even today on the radio I heard a caller who stated that the tea-party movement was racist. Hmmm, explain the following:
~Indian-American female elected Governor of SC (Nikki Haley). She is the 2nd Indian-American Governor along with Bobby Jindal out of Louisiana
~First Hispanic Female Governor elected out of New Mexico (Susana Martinez)
...yes, she is ANTI ILLEGAL-immigration
~in SC, Tim Scott...a black tea-party candidate wins and is the first black GOP elected to Congress in years. Oh wait, Alan West out of Florida also fits this too...he is a black tea partier too! There is one more black tea partier whose contest is yet to be decided at this time.
(my point being...it isn't about skin color, but ideology...unfortunately the black tea party GOP candidate I voted for in my district got defeated tonight)

2. ACORN filed for bankruptcy today...ironic I would say. Obama and his community organizing background crossed paths with this organization, they were caught doing illegal activity, lost their federal funding, and are now bankrupt!

3. What the swap from D to R's in the House means...not only will Pelosi be gone as Speaker, but the chairmen of the various committees will swap too. Republicans will win the chairman's gavel on nearly 2 dozen committees with oversight power. Oh yeah, hand over your gavel too Pelosi!

4. 3 Supreme Court Justices in Iowa look like they will lose. Why is this important in case you haven't heard? The people of Iowa voted a while back to keep marriage between a man & woman, obviously voting against same-sex marriage. These 3 judges decided to overturn what the people voted for, and backed a ruling for same sex marriage. So, these 3 judges were up for a retention vote to keep their positions, and it appears they will lose. This is important because it is the people's decision, not judicial activist.

5. Conservatism is alive and kicking...that is the theme of the night (overall). People want responsibility and change. Not only has their been a huge swing to conservatives, but also in other areas. The Proposition to legalize marijuana in CA was defeated too. The only conservative value shot down that I am aware of was in Colorado...they had an initiative on the abortion issue and were trying to pass a fetal personhood amendment that got defeated.

gonna be gridlock...

All of the election races are not final yet but it is already obvious, that Americans have been unhappy with Congress and this current Administration...that being said, as expected...Republicans are going to take over the House, which means BYE BYE PELOSI! My main point of this is to say, Obama will no longer to simply state what he wants and expect Speaker Pelosi to make it happen. From now on, there will be a gridlock....and it will be based on ideology, not simply R vs D. That is what the media is going to say...R, the party of no. But it goes soooo much deeper than that. You have someone like liberal Pelosi who has been pro-choice, bigger government, for "non-traditional" marriage, for Obamacare...and now you will have a conservative Speaker (John Boehner more than likely) who is pro-family, pro-life Catholic, hard working, fiscally responsible...at the end of the day, Pelosi and Boehner are 2 completely different people with 2 completely different ideologies. That being said, Obama thinks like Pelosi...so, how can Boehner truly compromise with Obama and vice versa? If it were me (and I think more like Boehner)...those ideologies are unwavering for me. Pro-life, pro-family, pro-responsibility, traditional marriage...there isn't room for negotiation on those issues. So expect a gridlock from now on!

Money on the mind

I can't stop thinking about money issues...the economy, people I work with who are super hard-working and struggling, us having 2 kids now in daycare, etc...the thing about it is that for far too long, this thing called the American Dream went from reality to fantasy for most Americans. Instead of Americans simply working hard, using their hard earned money responsibly, and living simple lives...we took the dream and pumped steroids into it. Wouldn't you agree?
Think about it...for as long as I can remember, we as Americans want the bigger house, with the nicest car, with the best clothes, and so on. On one side there isn't anything wrong with wanting better for our families, but on the other side...most Americans couldn't afford it.
Because of the economy, there are so many people coming to the same reality...we have to live within our means. What I've realized (and this applies to government and individuals/families) is that it truly doesn't matter how much money one makes, what does matter is how that money is spent. And let's face it, once we get accustom to a certain lifestyle, it's hard to let that go. BUT, change has to happen...we have to become more responsible, both as individuals and as a country. So, IF you are seeing more difficult times...think of ways to cut spending. I say start small (luxuries that you can do without...cable, internet-if you have it on your phone then just use that instead of at home, home phone-assuming you have a cell phone...look for coupons, look for ways to feed your family for less, etc)
All that being said, unfortunately there are a lot of people struggling out there...if you are one of them, you are not alone. At the same time, it goes to show how the economy is the biggest issue our government should be looking at right now. We don't need more crazy spending legislation out there. It is easy to live in denial, but that doesn't make the issue any better or doesn't make it go away. The only answer is to address the issue, and spending is the issue. Take that into consideration if you haven't already been to vote yet (we have early voting here in Memphis). Congress, for the last 4 years have been under the same party majority (so Bush's last 2 years + Obama's first 2 have been under the D-party majority) Congress is the one that passes legislation, that sets the laws into place...that's why this election is so important. We have seen spending go through the roof like never before these last few years (let me also be clear, both Democrats and Republicans have contributed to the deficit/debt our country is in...so although both parties are responsible, the D party is generally for bigger government which means more tax money spent)...and although it is on the shoulders of both R & D, we have to elect people who are seeing the circumstances for what it is, who are willing to change our country's lifestyle of over spending, who are willing to make possible un-popular decisions for the sake of our future, and last but not least...we, as citizens, have to hold them accountable. IF Republicans win as it is believed to be, they have a huge responsibility on their hands...and they will be held accountable to do what they said they would do.

God's love

We were fortunate to go to my home church in Alabama today...it's been forever since we were there last, but is awesome to go back to a place where everyone remembers you. To be honest, it was a bit of a fight and challenge just to make it there with 2 small kids this morning, but so worth it. The main point is this...
God truly loves us...regardless of skin color, political affiliation, ongoing sin in our life...he loves us! What I've realized from this weekend...is that most people (including Christians) do not believe that God can truly love them. They haven't accepted them-self...and can't believe that God would. However, please know this...God TRANSFORMS lives. He has done it since the beginning of time. Regardless if you truly believe it or not, God does miracles and transformations all of the time. It breaks my heart to see the doubt in God, to see the self-hatred, and to see the lack of intimacy with God. We, including myself, take God for granted. There is nothing more encouraging and powerful than to see and know people who are truly sold out for God. Once you get to know God, He does live inside you...which transforms your lifestyle.

History-Presidents and Congress

The founders of our country set up a system of "check and balances" to make sure our leaders couldn't just take control. How in the world those men were able to think through all of this stuff back in the day is beyond me...it's truly impressive. So remember, our branches of government are comprised of the Legislative (Congress...both the Senate & House), Executive (President & Vice President), and Judicial (Supreme Court). Anyway, since Congress is ultimately in charge of the laws passed...I was curious to see what party controlled Congress while the different Presidents were in office. (I will admit, part of this was fueled by a conversation where the other person is a huge Democrat...this person always says that things were great while Clinton was President and this person thinks Bush is the devil...as you will see, I hated to tell this person that while Clinton was in office, Republicans were in charge of Congress...maybe that's why this person thinks that era was so great)
The following dates back to around the time I was born (and the bold years are Presidential inauguration years):
YEAR...PRESIDENT...PARTY AFFILIATION...SENATE MAJORITY...HOUSE MAJORITY
1979-Carter (D)..........D..........D
1981-Reagan (R)..........R..........D
1983-Reagan (R)..........R..........D
1985-Reagan (R)..........R..........D
1987-Reagan (R)..........D..........D
1989- Bush (R)..........D..........D
1991- Bush (R)..........D..........D
1993- Clinton (D)..........D..........D
1995-Clinton (D)..........R..........R
1997-Clinton (D)..........R..........R
1999- Clinton (D)..........R..........R
2001-Bush (R)..........D..........R (FYI-911 hit within his first 8 months in office...only Congress can declare war)
2003-Bush (R)..........R..........R
2005- Bush (R)..........R..........R
2007- Bush (R)..........D..........D
2009- Obama (D)..........D..........D (Democrats have controlled both parts of Congress since 2007...this should shed more light
on who has been in control of our economy and the decisions over the last several years)

Political Passion...

The more I learn, the more passionate I become...and I do mean passionate, not angry or anything like that. I want to actually learn more about government and economics...particularly how it relates to Christianity. I know, a lot of people wish that the two were not intertwined...but that is not the reality we live in. After all, Christianity is not just a religion...but a lifestyle. You can't separate the two. The Bible and its teaching are constantly being attacked, even in America. From what I understand about the Constitution and the First Amendment, it was specific about government not establishing one dominant religion (example: Middle Eastern Countries like Saudi Arabia where Islam is the only option or you are punished). That doesn't mean we can't have religion...so with an emphasis on words, it is more of freedom from religion, not necessarily of religion.
The more I talk to different people about politics, I am curious to know why they think and vote the way they do...and truthfully, to see if they are informed on what is actually going on. There are a lot of generalized comments out there, from both parties...but those comments don't always have a lot of truth behind them. So, if you are willing to make the stupid statements like..."Republicans just use religion" or "Republicans only want the rich to get richer"...then be prepared to do in depth. I love getting in these conversations...and I didn't say arguments.
So, please know...this election is important. Regardless of how you vote, please research it...know where your candidate stands. If they have served in the past, look at their voting record to see if it lines up with your views. Last but not least, realize and understand this...a President doesn't make the laws, they have to work with Congress. So, primary elections are super important. The President can propose laws, but it has to be approved in both the Senate and House...so, these elections are the most important! Get out and vote!

Good analogy...what do ya think? (I Want Your Money)

First things first...my husband and I actually got a date night tonight without the 2 kids. The in-laws were in town, so once the kids were in bed we went to the movies. Since working with 2 kids, I rarely have time for television...so I had not heard anything about the movie/documentary out titled "I want your money". Talk about a history lesson and economics lesson all rolled into one. At the end of the day...I am realizing that economics is common sense in most ways, we (government and personally) have to be responsible with the money we make. If you spend more than you make (whether taxes are high or low, we still have to be responsible with the money), you will get into trouble. Bottom line.

So here's the analogy and thoughts after watching this...I work for a pharmaceutical company! I proudly say that because we are a company that as a sales force, work straight commission. What does that mean...it means we work our butts off for every dime we EARN. So, when business is good then great; when times are tough, they are real tough. Nonetheless, we have to work hard in order to survive.
The history of this company started before it actually began...our founder and other men used to work for a pharmaceutical company back in the day. They worked straight commission and earned good money. BUT, that company sold out to another company...who told them to stop running and gunning, stop seeing as many doctors, and to spend more money on the doctors. Since this was against their nature (they were used to working hard), they started our company.
Now for the analogy...this is like capitalism vs socialism. Our company is based off of the free market set-up: Not every one makes the same amount, some make more than I ever dreamed about...and that's okay. Everyone is working hard for what they earn, and in our company there is no cap (top amount) on what can be made...just like the way America is supposed to be.
On the flip side...(more like socialism) most pharmaceutical companies pay their sales force the same base salary with the same benefits, really whether they are earned or not. What that means is that you get some sales people who work really hard, that do a good job, that have good reputations, and that earn every dime of their pay check...BUT, you also have those employees that just do enough to keep their job, that don't work too hard, yet earns the same pay check as the hard worker. Make sense? This is kind of the concept of socialism...it doesn't reward hard work and integrity, which means it will actually bring performance down.

If the above doesn't make much sense...then we will use the classroom grade analogy. In school, say you study hard and understand the material...you make an A on the test. Your friend came unprepared, and bombed the test making a D. (Capitalist approach...you get what you earn. And yes, some people may have to work harder than others, but that's okay...not everyone's best is an A and Valedictorian). On the flip side, everyone takes the same test...the students still officially make the A, and the other makes the same D...but the teacher decides to take matters into her own hands and make the class average...everyone makes a C. That stinks for the kid that deserved and worked for an A...and the undeserving kid who made the D, gets rewarded for nothing. I know that makes sense. Unfortunately, if this teacher continues to do this...then those that studied hard will realize it didn't matter, and will stop studying as much.

Sorry this has been so long, but the moral of the story is...Socialism rewards negative behavior. The larger government gets, the more America slides toward Socialism. The larger government gets, the more people learn to rely on the government and not their hard work. Instead of relying on our own God given abilities, we learn to rely on the government which rewards negative behavior. Unfortunately, both Democrats and Republicans have contributed to this dependence on government. I truly believe that Americans are waking up, seeing our Nation's past mistakes, and are desiring to be free and responsible again. Competition and capitalism is a good thing; it truly does breed freedom and prosperity for those willing to take advantage of it. If you then decide to sit on your but and do nothing, then you don't deserve the benefits and well being the others earned. Simple as that!

Responsibility

Some think as Christians we should just sit back and let God take care of everything when it comes to politics....that we should JUST trust God and let it all work out.
While trusting in God is crucial, it doesn't mean that we just sit back and do nothing. Like I heard someone say today, we have bills to pay (electricity, mortgage, etc)...and you don't just sit in your house and do nothing and trust that God will pay them. You use the ability that God gave you to work hard, to earn the money to ensure your bills are paid. God gave us a responsibility. I think the same applies in politics too. We either sit back and do nothing, or we take action. You obviously know what I have chosen...it is our responsibility to vote. And to not only vote, but to also know who and what we are voting for. As Christians, we have to fight for Biblical values...not everything is cut and dry in the Bible...but a lot of issues are black and white according to God's word. As Christians, it is OUR responsibility to follow the guidelines that God gave us according to the Bible.
Although a lot of people wish faith and politics didn't intertwine, they do. People not only care about the economic policies, but they also care about the social issues. 2 of these social issues are in the "black and white" category in the Bible. 1. Regardless of what others want us to believe, the Bible is clear on homosexuality. Not that homosexuality is a worse sin than others...but this particular sin happens to be a big political agenda these days. The "world" has tried to get us to believe this sin is normal, when the Bible clearly states that it is unnatural. 2. Abortion...God states in the Bible that He knew us in the womb. Life is precious...you mean to tell me the heartbeat of a fetus doesn't mean it is alive. We have to speak for the unborn, because they can't represent themselves.
On the above issues...abortion and homosexuality...these issues are bigger than ever in the political battle. Some want our taxpayer money to go toward abortion and killing babies...homosexuals want their sexual behavior considered normal and legalized. Whether you like it or not, faith and politics coexist. You have to take a stand on one side or the other...I just hope you stick to the Bible's teachings and don't give in to social pressure.

Seriously Pelosi...

So did you hear Pelosi's latest comments? According to Speaker Pelosi recently, food stamps and unemployment insurance are going to give us more bang for the buck and lift us out of the recession. Hmmmmm...does this actually make sense to anyone? The USDA projects that next year's enrollment will reach about 43.4 million. 43 million people on food stamps...that's crazy!
There are several points to this post:
Does the great Pelosi not realize that food stamps come from taxpayer money? Food stamps are at an all time high, which means that MORE tax payer money is being spent. The MORE food stamps, the MORE government spending. And then she actually has the audacity to say that food stamps will help pull the US out of the recession...seriously, is she stupid? Once again, spending more government money that we don't have seems to be the answer.
Another point on this...my husband teaches in the inner city. Today in class, different kids made comments about how their mom's not want to make more money because they wouldn't get their food stamps. Hmmm, and you think this system is good? Once again, we "reward" people for not working (Don't misunderstand me...I do realize that some people may truly need food stamps. But I also think this should be temporary, not permanent benefits.) I don't think it takes a genius to realize how dumb these comments are.

And if you didn't think that was dumb enough...I'll remind you of Pelosi's comments back when Obama-care was being pushed/passed: (Pelosi made this comment back in March of this year)
“But we have to pass the bill so that you can find out what is in it, away from the fog of the controversy..." (Click HERE to read for yourself) That still doesn't make sense...they didn't know what was going to be included in Obama care at the time, so they had to pass a historical bill to find out what they would include. Makes no sense at all...think of it this way, you wouldn't sign a legal document or contract without reading it first would you?

*Side note...I realize that Obama and Pelosi didn't start food stamps and aren't responsible for the program...my point lies in the idiocy of her comments. We wonder why the economy isn't getting better...it is because this administration thinks we can SPEND our way out of a recession. It isn't working. Heck, if you yourself are struggling financially...do you spend more money to get out of that situation of increasing debt and uncertainty? The answer...NO. Spending money you don't have increases debt.

Amazing Friends & an AMAZING GOD

God is amazing...I received an email from a friend today that almost brought me to tears, and still gives me a lump in my throat now. One of my really good friends from Alabama, and his family, started foster parenting classes not too long ago. They really felt that God had called them to do more. They already have 2 young kids of their own, both work, but more importantly...they have a heart after God. To make a long story short, they have encountered a 4 month old child who has only 1 option to live...the little child desperately needs a liver transplant. For whatever the reason, this child has been placed into child services custody, and could only be cleared for surgery IF he had a home to go back to and people to care for him. So, to make a long story short...my friend and his family has stepped up to the plate...have been cleared to be foster parents...and more importantly, are willing! I could not be more proud of them.

God has always blessed me with amazing people throughout my life...several of my childhood/high school friends were and have grown to be Godly people...I met some amazing and lifelong friends in college...God brought me to Memphis, where I have met some of the most Godly oriented people who encourage me to be more...obviously I met my amazing, God-fearing, and disciplined husband...and not only that, I work for a company full of amazing people who aren't afraid to bring their faith to work in the pharmaceutical world. No matter where we go in life, God will put people in our path to walk along side us. I encourage you to be more than the norm, and to set examples of what a radical relationship with Christ should look like. We aren't to conform with the things of this world...although we live here on Earth, our citizenship is in Heaven. God is our commander and with Him, we have nothing to fear!

Breastfeeding benefits (baby and mom)

I know this is a change of subject...but I have been asked several times why I breastfeed, and it usually comes from people/family members who are older. So, I thought I would dedicate this post to breastfeeding knowledge and information.

Here's a summary of benefits...for infants and the nursing mothers
Infant benefits~(www.askdrsears.com)
Brain. Higher IQ in breastfed children. Cholesterol and other types of fat in human milk support the growth of nerve tissue.
Eyes. Visual acuity is higher in babies fed human milk.
Ears. Breastfed babies get fewer ear infections.
Mouth. Less need for orthodontics in children breastfed more than a year. Improved muscle development of face from suckling at the breast. Subtle changes in the taste of human milk prepare babies to accept a variety of solid foods.
Throat. Children who are breastfed are less likely to require tonsillectomies.
Respiratory system. Evidence shows that breastfed babies have fewer and less severe upper respiratory infections, less wheezing, less pneumonia and less influenza.
Heart and circulatory system. Evidence suggests that breastfed children may have lower cholesterol as adults. Heart rates are lower in breastfed infants.
Digestive system. Less diarrhea, fewer gastrointestinal infections in babies who are breastfeeding. Six months or more of exclusive breastfeeding reduces risk of food allergies. Also, less risk of Crohn's disease and ulcerative colitis in adulthood.
Immune system. Breastfed babies respond better to vaccinations. Human milk helps to mature baby's own immune system. Breastfeeding decreases the risk of childhood cancer.
Endocrine system. Reduced risk of getting diabetes.
Kidneys. With less salt and less protein, human milk is easier on a baby's kidneys.
Appendix. Children with acute appendicitis are less likely to have been breastfed.
Urinary tract. Fewer infections in breastfed infants.
Joints and muscles. Juvenile rheumatoid arthritis is less common in children who were breastfed.
Skin. Less allergic eczema in breastfed infants.
Growth. Breastfed babies are leaner at one year of age and less likely to be obese later in life.
Bowels. Less constipation. Stools of breastfed babies have a less-offensive odor.

Mom's benefits~(www.askdrsears.com)
Reduces the risk of breast cancer. Women who breastfeed reduce their risk of developing breast cancer by as much as 25 percent. The reduction in cancer risk comes in proportion to the cumulative lifetime duration of breastfeeding. That is, the more months or years a mother breastfeeds, the lower her risk of breast cancer.
Reduces the risk of uterine and ovarian cancer. One of the reasons for the cancer-fighting effects of breastfeeding is that estrogen levels are lower during lactation. It is thought that the less estrogen available to stimulate the lining of the uterus and perhaps breast tissue also, the less the risk of these tissues becoming cancerous.
Lessens osteoporosis. Non-breastfeeding women have a four times greater chance of developing osteoporosis than breastfeeding women and are more likely to suffer from hip fractures in the post-menopausal years.
Benefits child spacing. Since breastfeeding delays ovulation, the longer a mother breastfeeds the more she is able to practice natural childspacing, if she desires. How long a woman remains infertile depends on her baby's nursing pattern and her own individual baby.
Promotes emotional health. Not only is breastfeeding good for mother's body, it's good for her mind. Studies show that breastfeeding mothers show less postpartum anxiety and depression than do formula-feeding mothers.
Promotes postpartum weight loss. Breastfeeding mothers showed significantly larger reductions in hip circumference and more fat loss by one month postpartum when compared with formula-feeding moms. Breastfeeding mothers tend to have an earlier return to their pre-pregnant weight.
Costs less to breastfeed. It costs around $1,200 a year to formula-feed your baby. Even taking into consideration the slight increase in food costs to a breastfeeding mother, the American Academy of Pediatrics estimates that a breastfeeding mother will save around $400 during the first year of breastfeeding.

What's the most important?

So what determines how you view politics or who you vote for? Is it government (growing government/shrinking government), economy based, military based/national defense, or social issues to name a few? Without naming names, I was talking to someone a couple of weeks ago who doesn't vote the same as me...and I was shocked to find out that we have similar views on the size of government. However, this person's reasons for voting the way he does were because of social issues. Another person that I don't necessarily see eye to eye with in terms of political party voting bases his on education (and know it isn't my husband). I have an uncle who pretty much refuses to vote either R or D, and he almost always votes Independent and wants to extremely limit the size of government.
So, what determines your views (the most): If you read my blogs much, I think my views are pretty clear...but are based on both social and government issues. In order for capitalism to thrive, competition to increase, and hard work be rewarded...I truly think our government should be limited. I also believe we should have a strong military, because it doesn't make sense to want a weaker military who isn't prepared. As for social issues, I go for what lines up with Biblical beliefs...those stances aren't really popular in much of today's society, but I do feel the Bible is clear on them. (2 of the biggest political and social issues always deal with the institute of marriage and when life begins...in other words, I am for "traditional marriage between a man and woman" and am "pro-life".) I understand things happen in life and emotions often come into play, but logic and "biblical truth" have to be the foundation...emotions often mislead us and get in the way of what is "right". Okay, you know where I stand and why...what about you?

Bad government -part 2

I truly am sorry to blog back to back...but I wouldn't do it if I didn't feel it is necessary to pass the word along. So, part 2 deals with Obamacare...and what it is already doing to health care. Just this week I have heard of 3 different issues relating to Obamacare...or the start of socialized medicine here in the US, which ever you prefer to call it.

1-The Principal Financial Group (an insurance agency) announced this week that it will no longer sell medical insurance. Hmmm...I wonder why? Maybe because the cost is going up and it isn't a smart business decision to keep going. Think about this too...as part of the chain reaction, jobs will be lost and competition in the health insurance industry will decrease. Doesn't sound like this helps the economy out any either.
2. The huge company 3M announced this week that it will no longer provide health insurance to its retirees....and 3M actually cited the federal overhaul of healthcare as a factor. So think about this, people won't be able to retire when they have earned the right to do so...they will have to stick it out until the very end or take a lesser healthcare option that they don't want.
3. This issue came up in Tunica, MS where casinos are really the only thing that area has going on...while in conversation this week with someone who works in the area, it has already become known that when Obamacare goes into action...the workers at the casinos have already said they will quit their jobs. Why you might ask...as they said, the only reason they have been working is to get healthcare. Once Obamacare occurs, they won't have to work anymore. I am not making this up! So once again, government entitlement programs work against America. Obamacare will enable people...it will discourage some people from working...it will cut out competition among health insurance providers...and it will make the healthcare industry less effective.

I don't want to say I told you so...but keep this in mind...November is right around the corner! It's almost election time baby!

Bad government- Part 1

The whole illegal immigration issue is just getting deeper in ignorance...today I heard that 11 COUNTRIES have gotten involved in the Arizona vs OUR OWN FEDERAL GOVERNMENT issue! If what I heard is correct, the following countries have filed what is known as a 'friend of the court': Mexico, Argentina, Brazil, Bolivia, Chile, Costa Rica, Ecuador, El Salvador, Nicaragua, Paraguay, and Peru.

So I looked up 'friend of the court' and that definition is below:
Literally, friend of the court. A person with strong interest in or views on the subject matter of an action, but not a party to the action, may petition the court for permission to file a brief, ostensibly on behalf of a party but actually to suggest a rationale consistent with its own views. Such amicus curiae briefs are commonly filed in appeals concerning matters of a broad public interest; e.g., civil rights cases. They may be filed by private persons or the government. In appeals to the U.S. courts of appeals, an amicus brief may be filed only if accompanied by written consent of all parties, or by leave of court granted on motion or at the request of the court, except that consent or leave shall not be required when the brief is presented by the United States or an officer or agency thereof.

Seriously? What business do any of these countries have getting involved in this issue. They have NO say so what-so-ever in this matter...nor should they have had the right to legally get involved. Look at the facts: it is AGAINST our constitution for anyone to enter the United States illegally. Did you get that part? ILLEGALLY. As I have said on here before...please come to America, just do it like every other LEGAL citizen has done. I am not anti-immigration, just anti- ILLEGAL immigration.

So basically you have this...Arizona passes a law that mirrors the federal law (since the federal government hasn't been doing their job, Arizona's gives permission to do what our federal government should be doing...it isn't as if the law is extreme, it is national law)...if our federal government wants to go into court over something, why don't they go after the "sanctuary cities" that actually go against the laws of the land and encourages ILLEGAL immigrants to hide in their cities. That's illegal in itself...at the end of the day all I can say is...our federal government is whacky and ironically, doesn't know the laws they are based off of.

To Save a Life & bullying

Movie recommendation entitled: TO SAVE A LIFE
(we found it in a redbox recently and then liked the message so much we bought it:
It deals with bullying, suicide, unwanted pregnancy, cutting, peer pressure, and more.

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Where to start and to tread lightly on this subject...the subject of choice, bullying! For some reason the act of bullying is getting huge media coverage lately. To some degree I get it; only in recent years has internet bullying become an issue that has never been dealt with before...nonetheless, bullying has been around throughout the ages. Now I am not saying that this makes it okay, but I am saying this isn't new. People get bullied for everything under the sun...for having acne, for being overweight, for being underweight, for the clothes they wear, for their home life, etc. But for some reason, bullying homosexuals happens to be the trump card these days. That frustrates me, because bullying is bullying...regardless of the motives behind it.
So if you haven't heard, a college student committed suicide lately...the supposed reason is because fellow classmates broadcast a homosexual encounter on the web. This has received a lot of attention for obvious reasons.
First...let me say how my heart goes out to this persons' family and friends. Knowing people who have dealt with suicide, that hurt can last for years and years.
Next...regardless if one wants to admit it or not, suicide is a personal decision...and in my opinion, a very selfish decision. I can't imagine what this individual was thinking, but I do know Satan lead him to believe that there was no other option but to kill himself. So maybe the "bullying" act was horrible and undeserved, but this person made the decision to jump off a bridge. No one forced him to do it.
Finally on this subject...I am a firm believer that if you aren't doing something wrong then you don't have anything to hide. Shame and guilt come from sin...and those emotions can lead someone to do all kinds of things, even suicide. Bullying is bullying regardless of the reasons...just because this particular instance was based around homosexuality, it gets extra media attention. Heck, I didn't have to look too far for advocates...Dancing with the Stars had their own homosexual bullying shout out last night.

First Sign...

All I know is that this weekend, our FIRST political sign went up in our front yard! I've never felt the need for one of these in the past, but as you can tell from previous blogs...I feel that a lot is on the line in the upcoming election. So, Charlotte Bergmann better feel pumped. She is the Conservative candidate for our Congressional seat here in Memphis. Her opponent, Cohen, does not support my views. He is in favor of legalizing Marijuana and voted FOR Obama-care...at a town hall meeting said in front of everyone that abortion was not in the Obama-care plan (we now know that is not true). There are more to his story, but those things alone are enough for me to vote against him. So, my activism continues...heck, if you want to change something...you have to take action right?

Obama-leaves out "Creator" in his speech

I received the following email this morning and wanted to share it with you...It is in regards to President Obama leaving out "Creator" in his speech yesterday where he was quoting from the Declaration of Independence. You can find a copy of the Declaration HERE. I had to go look it up for myself before I made any judgment on the issue, but it is clear that he left that out during his speech. I would hope that it wasn't intentional, but it had to have been so by either his writer or him. Check it out! The copied email starts below:

Obama Changes Declaration of Independence to Omit "Creator"

Watch the video to see this blatant disrespect for God and Christians in America

September 22, 2010

Dear Friend,

On September 17, President Barack Obama spoke to the Congressional Hispanic Caucus Institute 33rd Annual Award Gala. During his speech - reading from a teleprompter - he quoted from the Declaration of Independence. Here is what he said: "We hold these truths to be self evident, that all men are created equal, endowed with certain unalienable rights, life and liberty, and the pursuit of happiness."

Watch the Video Here!

Obama omitted the words "by their Creator" from his speech. Why? Given the fact that he was using a teleprompter, I can only conclude that this was intentional. Either he, or his speechwriter, did not want to give credit to Almighty God. This kind of action would be in step with modern secular liberalism which is hostile to the Christian faith and hates the historical fact that America's founders revered and acknowledged God in so many ways that are indisputable, such as these words in the Declaration of Independence: "endowed by their Creator."

The best action Christians can take in response to this is to both work and pray for changes in Washington, D.C. You can start by getting everyone you know who is eligible to vote to register and vote November 2. We need more men and women who, like our founders, understand that our rights are from God and not from man.

202-224-3121

This is the phone number to Capitol Hill (202-224-3121)...I called it today, for only the 2nd time in my life. Just know that if there is legislation to be voted on, you can call and tell your Senator or Representative which way you want them to vote. Literally, the switch board was busy most of the day...so I was only able to get through to one Senator; the other Senator's line was busy every time I was able to get through the switchboard. That let's me know that a lot of people in America were calling in to voice their opinion...
If you weren't aware, today was the day that our Senators voted on a Defense Bill (funding for our military)...But, that wasn't the only thing in the bill. There were also 3 big issues "thrown" in by the Dems, which they hoped would pass and luckily didn't.
The first issue...Repealing "Don't Ask Don't Tell"-if it would have passed, then homosexuals would be allowed to openly serve in the military...which would have led to a lot of other issues, including military religious leaders not being able to voice their beliefs without ridicule, uncomfortable barrack situations, among other issues.
The second issue...putting abortion clinics on military bases and military hospitals worldwide.
The third issue...(which has nothing to do with military per se) amnesty for illegal immigration.

So, the bill didn't go through...and both Democrats and Republicans voted AGAINST this bill. So don't let the media fool you into thinking it was only the right side that voted this down. One more thing, regardless of what side you are on for these issues...they (politicians) shouldn't be allowed to throw irrelevant legislation into bills. I don't know who started this sneaky thing back in the day, but it is bull.

Values Voter Summit

(Protect Marriage • Champion Life • Strengthen the Military • Limit Government

Control Spending • Defend Our Freedoms)

Do you care about the above issues? If so, then know the following...

If you aren't aware, there is a huge summit going on in DC right now...the Values Voter Summit. It addresses a lot of the social issues that are political. You can check out this website to see who is behind the scenes, who sponsors it, who is speaking at it...

CLICK HERE...VALUESVOTERSUMMIT

I have to quote something I just heard...this lady being interviewed (Amy Kremer of the Tea Party Express) make the following comment and I love it, "Some people may get mad at me saying this, but we aren't in the business of getting Republicans to Washington, we are in the business of getting conservatives to Washington." This is so accurate...just because someone runs under the Republican party doesn't mean they are a true conservative. That being said, most conservatives DO align more with what the Republican party is supposed to/or used to stand for. That's kind of what the Tea Party has been about...bringing awareness to Americans and holding politicians accountable (of both parties).

Here are the types of organizations that sponsor this event, and TRULY have OUR best interest at heart:
Family Research Council
American Family Association (the organization I listen to on the radio the most)
American Values
The Heritage Foundation
Liberty Council/Liberty University

Ya never know...return to church

I was talking to a dear friend today when I heard some GREAT news...this girl's father has not been to church in years (6...I believe). He recently started attending church again! We all know someone that we wish and pray would get back in church. I currently have someone I desperately wish would get back involved, but as of yet that hasn't happened...this however, gives me hope! (Before my father passed away last year, this was his story too...he returned to church after years of being away) So, don't give up on people...and this is a reminder to myself! If you happen to be that person that isn't involved in a church, then maybe it is time you return to God's house of worship!
The other very interesting part of the first mentioned story is what inspired this girl's father...
the Glenn Beck rally. Seriously! Her parents went to Washington DC to attend the rally recently. Something Glenn said hit home with this man...it was something to the extent of (and I am paraphrasing), "If you want this country to make a change, it starts with you. We have to change." The challenge to change oneself in order for our country to prosper...I think that is the root of it...a challenge! Just think if everyone in our country took this same challenge to better them-self, which in turn would help our country.
The last very interesting aspect of this whole thing is the Glenn Beck issue itself. He is a Mormon, which has been an issue for some. To my knowledge, he has not pushed his own religious affiliation...he has only expressed the need to return to God. Let's hope more people follow my friend's father and get back in church. (but to clarify, let's hope it is a Bible-based church and nothing else)